Stability Spectrum Pt.1

INTRO & DISCLAIMER:

This is a written resource intended to be supplemental to my workshops on The Stability Spectrum. Most of what is written below will be useful as a stand alone source of information. If something needs clarification, it is likely because this is support for a real-time course, not included. Chances are, an online search will help you to gain further understanding. Or, if you have specific questions or concerns please drop them below in the comments. Remember, I’m a yogi and do not hold a doctoral degree in any medical or sport-related field. Use this information appropriately and with guidance from your doctor if there is any question at all about its safety or efficacy for you, personally.

WHY AM I TEACHING THIS WORKSHOP SERIES?

I’ve been teaching yoga since 2014. I’ve been coaching other movement since 2012 and I’ve been an athlete my whole life. I’m a trained researcher and have spent years accumulating knowledge outside of the academic context to apply to my own body or to give me a different lens by which to view the bodies that come to me for training. In the process of teaching and observing others, I noticed people tend to cluster toward one or the other starting place in their movement endeavors. They are either in Group A - “Flexible” or they are in Group B - “Strong.” I’ve made a diagram to illustrate my thinking. These are loaded terms but I’ve chosen them for a reason - because they both highlight what are considered to be desirable traits AND you don’t need to know special terms to get the idea I’m trying to convey. They do not, however, do a good job of describing what’s going on beneath the surface for either group. We will get into that momentarily. For further illustration of the point, see the graphics below. CAVEAT: we are working off of stereotypes so don’t get too invested…

 
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Static and Motion based characteristics of “strong” and “flexible” people with some examples of overlap.

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On the left sample “strong” bodies from a basic Instagram search #strong and on the right an Instagram search for #flexible

 

Injury happens, discomfort happens, pulled muscles happen, compressed vertebrae happen…right? Yes. They do. But they don’t have to, at least in theory. The two groups above, in addition to having distinct characteristics of what they look like standing and in motion, also have a tendency to accrue injuries, aches and pains and maladaptive motor patterns in divergent ways; with some areas of overlap as well.

 
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Classical injuries/ailments experienced by “strong” or “tight” people, classical injuries/ailments experienced by “flexible” or “hypermobile” people and areas of overlap.

 

WHY CONTINUED…

In my personal experience I started in the “strong” category. I have experienced stiffness, discomfort, an inability to find good alignment in hand balance leading to chronic shoulder pain, sciatic nerve pain from a hamstring pull, etc. Over the years I have healed all of the above and am continuing to evolve my practice.

It so happens that, of my private clientele, more than half are working with me because of injuries related to hypermobility. These include patellar luxation, bunions, bursitis, hip capsule injuries, etc. We are continually working to re-train motor patterns that keep my clients’ bodies safe.

But in my everyday teaching experience, of which I have accumulated about 4,000 hours, I see people like me and people like my private clients mixed together in a class. As I gained experience, I started to notice these different populations. Listening to students, I started seeing patterns and how a standard yoga class assumes a body that possesses both strength and flexibility as a starting point, when in fact, many people are lacking in one or the other and sometimes both in drastic ways.

This online resource and the accompanying workshop are my first attempt to codify some of what I have observed over the years both in terms of problem areas and in terms of tools to resolve the problem areas. The good news is, the methodology is more or less the same for both groups of people! So below we will get into more technical definitions of “strong” and “flexible,” how to identify those patterns in yourself and from there we will take a look at some resources I’ve found to be of great efficacy over the years.

Definitions

As previously mentioned, the terms “strong” and “flexible” are good to get started but otherwise inadequate for the following conversations. So, let’s keep the general concepts but replace those two words for more meaningful terms.

In this conversation we will now convert “strong” to “stable.”

Stability is the ability to maintain or control joint movement or position. Stability is achieved by the coordinating actions of surrounding tissues and the neuromuscular system.

Instead of “flexible” we will now use “mobile.”

Mobility is the degree to which an articulation (where two bones meet) can move before being restricted by surrounding tissues (ligaments/tendons/muscles etc.) - otherwise known as the range of uninhibited movement around a joint.

In an ideal world these two abilities work together in tandem for a perfectly balanced system where no one get hurt except through external forces. But the real world looks like these two abilities being out of balance in most bodies to the degree that a person ends up in one or the other camp. To visualize this let’s bring back one of my favorite teaching tools from Psych 101 - the bell curve!

The Bell Curve

NOTE: The graphical depictions below are my approximation of things, not based on personal research or study. Real studies do exist if you want more precision.

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The Bell Curve

The term "bell curve" is used to describe a graphical depiction of a normal probability distribution, whose underlying standard deviations from the mean create the curved bell shape.

Let’s apply the concepts of the Stability Spectrum to the Bell Curve and see what we get….

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0, .5 and -.5 on the Bell Curve with our variables applied. Notice how the Bell Curve is a spectrum with a big bump in the middle.

Referencing the version of the Bell Curve (above), we start at the zero-point or the middle. Here, a person has full use of their joints in a way that is supported by their muscles and other tissue. The given range of motion (ROM) for a joint is determined by examining a wide variety of factors including the shape of the joint itself. We will take a look at the other factors involved a little later as most of the variables factor into where a person falls on the Stability Spectrum. You will also notice above, two points equidistant from the center. If we were talking pure numbers these points would be labeled .5. That is to say they are about half of a point away from the mean, taken here to mean the statistical average. On the Bell Curve, whatever is being measured is less “average” the further away from the middle it gets. At .5 away from the middle, you’re still looking at things most people would consider normative. In our example, someone who has one or two stiff joints or someone who maybe has open shoulders even though their hips are tight would not be considered extreme cases (we will discuss exceptions in the workshop). Since in reality most people don’t have full range of motion with support from surrounding tissue, the above is an idealization. In most circumstances, if you were to actually measure people and create a statistical average ROM, the mean would probably skew toward the tight side of things. The Yoga Dojo is an example of a community or cohort where, perhaps, the mean would skew toward the mobile side.

The Bell Curve - Tails

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The further you move away from center on the Bell Curve the further you get from the statistical average. Here is 1+, using our model of mobility. At this point, the manifestations begin to look extreme compared to the middle of the pack.

Here’s where the conversation gets a little interesting. The further you move away from center the higher the number. So this Bell Curve (above) shows +1 and -1 and beyond. This is where, the people in our discussion would start to have congenital joint issues like club foot, or on the other end have Ehler’s Danlos Syndrome. The size of the Bell Curve drops off steeply here. That is because there is a rapidly diminishing number of people at each point. The two differently colored ends of our spectrum or Bell Curve are called the “tails.”

It is through examining the "why” behind the conditions at the tails that we get a really good understanding of what is at play for the rest of us back toward the middle.

Factors

Where you fall on the Stability Spectrum is going to be a combination of many factors. Your joint ROM is the quickest and dirtiest assessment of where you fall. As mentioned previously, there are multiple factors influencing ROM…

Bone Morphology - The shape and angles of the bones in the joint and leading into the joint. For this purpose you can think of all joints as simple machines. The length of the limb leading into the joint will create different leverage and torque in addition to the shape and angle of the joint itself. Ex: Press Handstands

Movement Practices - the regular degree through which a joint is asked to move. Ex: Sedentary lifestyle vs. Professional Athlete

Tissue Properties - Muscles, ligaments, tendons, even skin surrounding a joint have a predisposition to different properties. The assumption is that these tissues are all functioning normally. Changes in tissue function effect the stability or mobility of a joint.

Genetics/Diet/Age - The genes you inherit influence your morphology, tissue composition, how your body processes the raw material you consume as food and how these variables evolve over the course of your lifetime.

Injury - Accute and chronic use injuries can impact one or more joint’s ROM in a sudden and drastic way.

When you’re measuring a “normal” body it is sometimes difficult to see how the above factors relate to one another. It can be hard, for example, to look at my own body and say “Well what came first? Tight muscles? Tight ligaments? Is the tightness genetic? Is it emotional?” We have the people living in the tails to thank for some of the greatest insights about our body as a system. It is through studying communities like the EDS community, that we are able to understand the role genes play on collagen formation and thus joint health. It is through observation of patients undergoing physical therapy after surgery and injury that we are able to examine how large changes in ROM effect the body as a whole. The body is indeed a system. It is very difficult and maybe impossible to isolate any ONE of the above factors as being the definitive reason for where you fall on the Stability Spectrum.

Assessment Tools

Baseline measurements can be found below as well as some definitions of extension, flexion etc:

BASELINE ROM

A quick test for Hypermobility can be found below. Notice, we have not defined Hypermobility in writing. There is a wide range of what Hypermobility can mean and secondly there is no direct antonym or opposite. You can take it to mean greater than baseline ROM in one or more joints OR you can find a more detailed explanation here. The quick test for Hypermobility is called the Beighton Score. There are two links below both showing the criteria for the test with some novel and redundant information:

BEIGHTON SCORE 1

BEIGHTON SCORE 2

So what about the tighter people reading this and participating in the workshop? For you we have some standard flexibility tests ala gym class in primary school. If you want to get fancy - grab a friend, a protractor, ruler and tape measure. The tests after the link below more or less run you through the ROM for your major joints. Get your friend to measure the angle with the ruler and protractor and some of the sit and reach scores with your tape measure. That is what we will be doing in the workshop!

FLEXIBILITY TESTING

Final Thoughts for Pt 1

Ok, how’d you do? If you came away with a couple of hyper mobile joints, congratulations! You are in the approximately 25% of the population who has one or two hypermobile joints. If you your self assessments or the definitions on the Hypermobility page started sounding alarms, this would be a good indication to follow up with your doctor. Severe connective tissue disorders are rare BUT maybe some of the aches and pains you experience are related. Part 2 of this series will address some immediate tools you can use and modifications you can make to your movement to keep you safe in the mean time.

Tight? Chances are you already knew it! But likewise, if you are experiencing limitations in a generalized way, or severely in more than one joint, that’s what part 2 is for.

Perfectly balanced specimen? More power to you my friend. Chances are you already do some of the exercises and drills I’m going to show everyone in part 2. Join us anyways and be my movement model!

Knowledge is the key to moving forward. We aren’t conducting peer reviewed double blind experiments here, but if you can’t use yourself as your life’s greatest experiment and keep notes accordingly what are you even doing? These are the sorts of activities people used to do when screens didn’t exist. Its through just this sort of curiosity and experiment that yoga was born.

We are at a temporal nexus of ancient and modern knowledge coalescing. Disparate practices with esoteric focal points are pooling resources to evolve new Gold Standards. Its an amazing time to be a mover. Today, we know more about moving and the human body than every before. I’m looking forward to part 2 where I will share some of the best tools around for creating happy joints and healthy tissue that I’ve found in the past ten years.

Questions and comments below 👇.

Thanks! 😊🙏

April book drop

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The Kingdom of Copper

By: SA Chakraborty

Wow. The last quarter of the book is teeeeeeense. And there is no resolution. It ends in the middle of a huge cliff. Thankfully, I was able to go right on to the next one. As middle books in a trilogy goes, this was well done. Enough happened to feel like the action warranted dividing into three parts - this is being written from the perspective of having also finished the third book just a few weeks later. I’ll expand my review of the series in that break-down.

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Tales of Beatrix Potter

By: Beatrix Potter

I find it a little off-putting to anthropomorphize animals and then to have them eating each other. For that reason these stories never really sit well with me. It feels like low-key cannibalism. For such well-beloved children’s stories I found them really rather grotesque. Just me? Vor seemed to enjoy them. Maybe there just weren’t that many books/children’s books back in the day and that is how this book gained such reknown but I didn’t find them endearing or loveable or really at all valuable in terms of teaching lessons even. Pass.

Note: The works in this book are presented in a lot of other books with similar names. This is the exact version I read.

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Goodbye, Things

By: Fumio Sasaki

I really loved it. I’ve been minimal for years yet I still found this book both inspiring and useful. An ironic note, the list of tips for going minimal is NOT a minimal list.

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The Goose Girl

By: Shannon Hale

I started listening to this with Vor and it was clear there was an impending dark turn. He wasn’t fully into the story anyway, so we paused and I finished on my own. My intuition was correct, there is a dark turn. It was not as insidious as I had feared, however. In the end this has a big character arc for the heroine and feels like a good read for the tween group. There are sequels. I probably will end up reading them eventually.

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Peter Pan

By: JM Barrie

This was an Audible Original adaptation. It was very engaging for Vor but a far cry from staying true to canon. I feel like the title is misleading and should have been billed as being “based-on.” You know the story of Peter Pan. No need to elaborate.

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Coyote America

By: Dan Flores

An unexpectedly interesting book. There was a depth and nuance to the information offered so that I never felt bored despite the deep dive into a specific subject matter. Narrative works well as a literary device to help the reader/listener stay invested in the overall arc of the book. Another free offering for Audible subscribers.

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For White Folks Who Teach In The Hood…and the Rest of Y’all Too

By Christopher Emdin

Damn. This book delivered. I think one of the biggest pitfalls of the social justice genre is that they are essentially self-help books for white people. It gets pretty repetitive. Especially, if you have read Bell Hooks, Angela Davis, James Baldwin, etc etc to whom newcomers writing in this genre often can’t hold a candle. Their contributions are welcome but often come off as basic for people who have been invested in “doing the work,” for a long time. This however, phew. Is it narrative? Yes. Is it pointed? Yes. Is it also broadly applicable? Yup! Not only is this a critique of and solutions for white teachers entering into POC spaces, it is a brutal commentary on the epic failings of our education system. BUT! The thing is solutions exist. They are also deftly laid out in this book. Highly recommend.

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What I Talk About When I Talk About Running

By: Haruki Murakami

How does he do it? How did he write a book about a hobby/sport I have next to no interest/involvement in and make it interesting? He has a way about examining the minutae that gives his writing a perpetually fresh, familiar feeling. I just finished another Murakami book and it was no less detailed about no less mundane things yet it was still engrossing. This book is not quite so standard in the author’s style in that, there is always some central crux-point for his narrative works. And around that point Murakami weaves exquisite insights into mundanity/the human experience. Here its just - running. Running and life. Life and Running. A beautiful meander through the mind of a truly gifted writer and apparent multi-sport athlete. I Stan.

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Midsummer’s Mayhem

By: Rajani LaRocca

The woman POC author I was looking for when I was duped by SA Chakraborty. JK, kinda. This was GREAT! I chose this book as a Mama-Vor book and it didn’t disappoint. The constant calls to A Midsummer Night’s Dream are of course lost on a 5-year-old but as I was hoping, the story was alive and substantive without any Shakespearian background. There’s magic, fae and BAKING! The author clearly knows her stuff. I think I can safely say, if you enjoy The Great British Baking Show you will enjoy this book. There are even recipes at the end! I enjoyed every bit of this scrumptious story (read it to get the inside joke).

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Who We Are and How We Got Here

By: David Reich

A book about genetics. I found the first part of this book SOOOO boring. There was a lot of science info unanchored by meaningful real-world discussion or narrative. I think that was its failing. I was not in the right mindset to take it all in. Its one of those books I wish I had a hard copy of and would read slowly making annotations on the side. But in all honesty, I doubt I would have had the patience to make it to the last third. The last third of this book was great. It was everything it promised to be and didn’t deliver on in the first 2/3. The last bit of the book really dives into the current sociological and philosophical war that is going on in the field of genetics. I will let the author speak for himself on this as I found his writing to be profound.

“It is now undeniable that there are non-trivial average genetic differences across populations in multiple traits and the “race” vocabulary is too ill defined and too loaded with historical baggage to be helpful. If we continue to use it, we will not be able to escape the current debate which is mired in an argument between two indefensible positions. On the one side, there are beliefs about the nature of the differences that are grounded in bigotry and have little basis in reality. On the other side, there is the idea that any biological differences between populations are so modest that, as a matter of social policy, they can be ignored and papered over. It is time to move on from this paralyzing false dichotomy and to figure out what the genome is actually telling us.”

I’m impressed with Reich’s boldness and willingness to put himself in an unwinnable position. He is making friends on neither side of the aisle here and instead seems to really hold his idealistic ground. I find that admirable and impressive. Aside from the style/pacing of the book, my other critique is that author somewhat minces words on the topic of male genetic dominance. when one society takes over another men sexually assault and rape women, a fact that is never stated forthcomingly. I found that he was being realistic but way too kind in the way he was painting the picture.

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The Empire of Gold

By: SA Chakraborty

SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS SPOILERS

Ok, now that is out of the way. This is your last chance. I’m going in and I’m not holding back. You were warned.

GAAAAH. They did Dara so dirty!!! There is a little redemption for him at the end but the whole time I was just gritting my teeth at Ali and Nahri’s hypocrisy. Did Ali grow on me? Yes. Did I overall really like Nahri? Yes. But they still both pissed me TF off. Dara is hands down a tragic figure for the ages. By the way, I’m not structuring my thoughts on this trilogy because most of it is just me emoting and there’s no reason behind it.

Jamshid and Muntadir! Love. Would have really liked to have more Zaynb in the series. She was amazing. Queen Hatset also amazing. Sobek - such a cool concept. End of the day I want so much more from this world. I want to follow Dara to the ends of the Earth. I want to circle back to Ali and Nahri’s descendants and see how they interface with Dara and the slave rings. I want to know more about the Peri. There’s endless material here.

Surprises that made me happy: Nahri’s grandpa. I straight up did not see that coming. It was a great way to end on a positive note where so much else was tinged with sadness. Speaking of - Dara riding off into the sunset to gather slave rings and free the enslaved Djinn. It was the mature thing to do and so I begrudging accept it. Did I want he and Nahri to end up together? 100,000%. But in all honesty, they are both damaged goods and their love, though real, was also a tangle of trauma bonds. And he needed to go heal and she didn’t need to save him. Its a RuPaul moment. If Dara can’t love himself…

Final thoughts. Still angry the author is white. It means some POC writer somewhere who also could have written and published this story was displaced. I’m obsessed with this world and excited to see it come to screen on Netflix. There is SOOOO much room to cast this with actors who cover a wide range of skin tones and ethnicities. I’m am hoping desperately that they don’t white-wash everyone. Ugh. pleeeeease let them get it right!! I want more books. I would love to see Chakraborty team up with an actual author of color to flesh out some of the stories that are begging to be told. Overall I fell in love with this trilogy. And was happy to spend the 60+ hours of listening to see it through to the end.

Playlist Drop - Bonne Nouvelle

Can I make it work to have distortion heavy, guitar led tracks in a playlist with Gucci? That was the jump off point for this playlist. I think I made it work, personally. Opinions are welcome. Share them in the comments. As much as a themed playlist can be fun, I enjoy a smattering of genres in one playlist more, I think. I’m a fan of random interludes - a 30s jazz track you never saw coming between Cardi B and Death From Above 1979. It keeps things fresh feeling imo. There are myriad ways to approach playlist creation. I find them all appropriate at different times. The impossible pairings keep me on my toes tho.

This playlist gives you ATL flavor with Mattiel, Young Baby Tate and Gucci. You get some female led rock with Mattiel and Charlotte Gainsbourg. International music from Flavia Coelho and DAM serve as an awesome energetical bridge between the beginning of the playlist and middle where we transition to a more hip hop vibe. DAM is of particular interest to me as they strike a global social justice chord with this song and their m.o. The refrain of Milliardat translates to “billions of dollars just to keep us separated.” I highly recommend a dive into this group and what they represent on the global stage. I heavily fuck with Pooh Shiesty, YBT and love this song by Amber Mark. I don’t think I have a favorite song on this playlist tbh. It’s good all the way to the end when the energy starts to simmer - after Killgxxd’s Y.I.M.B. Give it a listen and leave your comments below!

 

Touching In With The Past - Vintage Yoga Flow

I’m trying to archive old hard drives. I have like 40Tb of data that all needs to go into deep storage and be organized. Yes. That is 40, 4-0, no typo. I have enough data to warrant buying a RAID array. Anyway, I’ll save you the multiple wormholes those first two sentences sent me on. I came here to say that I posted some of my “vintage” yoga flows to my Congruence Yoga Youtube channel.

I practiced to “Challenging Upper Body and Core Flow” a couple days ago and I wanted to share it with you here as well as some thoughts since hindsight and all…

…Thoughts

1. I am so glad this phase of hair is no more. I couldn’t get my hair out of my face without what I call “The Unicorn Pony.” I have had so many different hair styles over the years. I think on this website alone you will be able to count at least 4 or 5. The Unicorn Pony was a necessary evil in growing my top knot out but damn. Not a fave.

2. My body has changed so much and also very little. It took about 6 months postpartum to get back to my normal weight range. Five years later and I’m still hovering in that same zone. Where I carry fat, muscle density, tone, etc. are all in constant flux. If I’m lifting I look different than if I’m walking, skate or doing yoga. But my overall weight is remarkably consistent. More noticeable to me is how I move. I look stiff here imo. I will never be hypermobile. I am just simply not expressing that gene, though it does run in my family. I have made huge strides in looking more fluid in my movement from this video shot 4 years ago but even to this day I find it surprising to actually see MY body get into some of the shapes it does. The way I get into flexy shapes is so different than how more flexible people get into the same shapes.

3. Wow. My pincha has come a long long way.

4. I’m immensely proud of my sequencing and cueing. This was a very challenging flow that incorporates methodologies that are just now being highlighted as “foundational” to any movement practice. And I was doing those things in very creative ways four years ago. I’m talking functional range training, spiral movements, breath-work and more. Not only that. I really did and still do my best to honor yoga’s roots when I’m teaching. I try to teach YOGA not just poses. I think that comes through.

5. Teaching at Thunderbolt was hard but it really elevated my teaching game. Some of that came from without. Carly gave me a limited structure to work within. The challenge then became to test the limits of the structure without stepping outside of it. I worked very well in that environment. Until I didn’t and that is a different story. For the most part, structure aside, my teaching is an offering of mySelf beyond self. I teach from a place of joyful creativity, expression, healing and intuition. The recordings for the video come from live classes I taught. Its a style I borrowed from Black Swan Yoga and I still prefer this format to pre-recording in a booth, teaching model students or dubbing over after the fact. You get to hear a moment in time that will never be re-created and I think that’s really special.

Five is an arbitrarily good number to close it out. I hope you enjoy this flow. Share feedback, successes, ask questions in the comment here or Youtube. Om shanti, shanti, shanti and thanks for your time.

March Books

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Roots: The Saga of An American Family

By: Alex Haley

Stellar. Probably many of you have seen at least one of the TV adaptations but as a work of art, the story is so powerfully told via the written word that this is 100% worth the time and emotional energy it takes to read. In the parts of the story that are easy-going, the characters are so real its easy to become invested. That of course makes the tragedies so much harder to bear. I think this book will hit even harder for readers with an understanding of trauma and epigenetics. For a primer on both, scroll down a bit and consider reading The Body Keeps The Score in tandem with Roots. For the internet version here is the Wiki on Trauma and the Wiki on Epigenetics. No human with empathy could possibly be unmoved by this book. It is truly remarkable. Can’t recommend enough.

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Becoming Fluent: How Cognitive Science Can Help Adults Learn A Foreign Language

By: Richard Roberts and Roger Kreuz

This book was a fun trip down memory lane for me. It is a great pick-me-up for adult learners in general. Furthermore, it is a 101 on the Psychology of Learning and teaches some of the best tools I remember studying in undergrad in a concise and clear way. You will come away with methods to apply to all you endeavor to learn, not just language. I felt like the authors did omit one worthwhile tidbit I use to this day if I have to cram facts into my brain for recall - primacy and recency. So here again, I present to you a Wiki on Primacy and Recency Effect.

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Taming The Tiger Within: Meditations on Transforming Difficult Emotions

By: Thich Nhat Hanh

A short read, this is a nice intro to shadow work in no such specific terms. Definitely recommend if you are dealing with difficult emotions or the echoes of such. Shadow-work is an important concept to be able to apply to oneself for personal growth. This book is a really approachable explanation and guide to beginning to integrate memories and emotions that maybe don’t feel so great to suppress.

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Super Mario - How Nintendo Conquered America

By: Jeff Ryan

Fun AF!! I can’t praise this enough for a fun read. It was welcome amidst the heavier hitting reads this month. You get a deep-dive into Nintendo. I had NO idea what a powerhouse they are. The nostalgia factor is through the roof and inspired me to download MarioKart on my phone just to dip my toe back into that world. Highly recommend to anyone who enjoyed Nintendo games growing up. I feel like this book is guaranteed to bring a smile to your face if you had any affinity for Super Mario, Donkey Kong, Zelda, Pokémon, etc. The writing is punchy and fast-paced. This is another one of those books where the real-life people seem larger-than-life. Enjoy!!

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Twain’s Feast

By: Andrew Beahrs & Nick Offerman

In its written format, this is a solo work by Andrew Beahrs. The audio version is narrated (in part) by Nick Offerman. In his own right, Nick Offerman is an entertaining author. I very much enjoyed Paddle Your Own Canoe and Gumption. Furthermore, he is really easy to listen to as a wind-down before bed. Not every narrator is. I also am familiar enough with N.O. to know him as highly progressive and thus to be mightily curious about him attaching his name to a book about Twain, who I’ve always viewed as racially problematic. My take-away and what I will share is this: I wouldn’t run out and get it nor would I read the actual book vs. listening. I wouldn’t however recommend against it. Controversial topics are not glossed over. They are also not covered exhaustibly as this book is about something specific. I think if you have a special interest in Twain, early American literature or Offerman you will find it enjoyable. To me and probably everyone else - palatable. Given the book’s subject matter that seems fair.

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The Body Keeps The Score

By: Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.

Wow. And when I say wow I mean…the term masterpiece is used on the cover and I can 100% endorse this book as such, personally. That being said, Neuropsychology was/is my area of interest almost over-archinginly so. It’s what I studied in college. I considered pursuing it for Ph.D. work. Hell, I still consider going back to pursue it. But this book is so much more than an overview of brain structure and function. The anecdotes are heart-wrenching and as a trauma survivor, myself, this was a very difficult read. A book of this size would normally take me a couple of days to get through. This book took me 2.5 weeks with lots of breaks for walks and being in my feels as well as unexpectedly being triggered into panic attacks. The thing is, as much as I know about the various methodologies that are covered in the second half and even with 13 years of actively working to reset my brain from childhood trauma, it still was impactful. Everyone has been touched by trauma because its either you who experienced it or its impacted someone you know. This book is important for everyone to read. Period. Underscore. If you have also experienced trauma, personally I recommend you plan a lot of self-care while reading. But please do not shy away. We are on the edge of huge break-throughs in how we work with the brain + mind-body connection. You can be on the front lines of that with the right knowledge, much of which is covered in this book. For further reading and inspo (and less painful anecdotes) I also recommend The Brain’s Way of Healing by Norman Doidge.

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Astrophysics For Young People In A Hurry

By: Neil deGrasse Tyson

This was a cute book and BONUS, if you listen to it on Audible its narrated by Lavar Burton!!! I Stan. Anyway, I read this with Vor who is 5. He liked it. We will listen again when he is older. Comparing this to Tyson’s book on the same subject for adults I am still wanting something in the middle between the two! But for kids this is great and for a really fun refresher on the basics this is also great for adults reading along with their kids.

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Stargazer

By: Dan Wells

This is the 3rd installment in this trilogy. Of the three it was my least favorite but also that’s like ranking cookies, ice cream, pizza, etc. You can only go so wrong here. All three books are quite fun and well done. This is a series intended for kids and as an adult I was delighted by the application of science to the world-building. If you love sci-fi and want to pass that on to the younger generation this trilogy does the work for you. If you are a person who loves sci-fi and occasionally needs to cleanse your palate of empire, killer AI, intergalactic battles etc, this would be a fun and fresh break. Anyhow, I thoroughly enjoyed all three books and would rank them 1, 2, 3 in their chronological order. I could totally stand an expansion of the series beyond 3 books.

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The Double Drastic Time Capsule Caper

By: Van Temple

This is one for the kids. It was structured enough to be enjoyable as an adult but we aren’t moving mountains or changing the game with the story. It is good-natured and appropriate enough for very young kids. The protagonists are quirky and fun for the little ones. I think it would be a little boring past the age of 8-10 depending on how advanced your kid’s reading skills are.

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Young Samurai: The Way of the Dragon

By: Chris Bradford

This is the 1st of 2 books Vor and I started reading together that I decided are not a good fit for him. But I have a thing. If I put the book in my library I read it unless it is extremely offensive or terribly written. This book has excellent reviews but I find it to be middling. It did however grow on me as time went along. The reason I immediately didn’t love it for Vor was the subject matter was a little too mature for him. Then I realized the main character is a white person in 18th century Japan and he’s the “hero” of the story. A white savior book is never going to sit well with me. That being said, some of the cultural issues I thought were going to be mismanaged turned around significantly as the book continued. Definitely not appropriate for little kids. It turns out there is a lot of violence and I also don’t like to condition my son toward heteronormative romance at this stage of his life. This book makes overtures in that direction as well. All complaints aside it was an adventurous story and not terrible at least as I sit as a white person who thinks they like Japanese history but is also white and has a limited perspective on such.

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The City of Brass

By: S.A. Chakraborty

BUYER BEWARE!! I thought this book was written by a woman POC. It is not. In that regard I feel like I got fleeced. I’m a little salty tbh. I have forgiven it as much as possible because damn if this isn’t a fucking interesting and fun world with great characters and so many layers of intrigue. I listened to a podcast with the author. It seems as though the Arabic world-building is done from a place of reverence and respect - she’s Muslim by conversion as well as being married into the culture she’s writing about. That this is not a POC author is challenging for me. UGH!

Judging from the reviews people of all backgrounds seem to love this series (its a trilogy). Despite my moral dilemma the story is really damn good so now I’m hooked. It’s also being Netflix’ed as we speak. The negative reviews largely center around the “slow” pace of the book. That was laughable to me, a person who regularly reads sci-fi with an entire encyclopedia of specialized terms and with series that have 10+ books. I don’t even know what these people are reading to consider this book slow. Some reviews do call Chakraborty out for cultural appropriation. I don’t even know. This is a topic I’m regularly examining - appropriation vs appreciation/reverence because as a white yoga teacher its baked into my very existence. I do know the story is great, the author is Muslim and a Middle Eastern scholar. I’m going to assume she gets most of it right with some significant oversights that being white are unavoidable.

RIYL vast empire-building, castle intrigue, mythical creatures and stories that don’t blow their load in the first 100 pages.